Court métrage érotique : Coaching sexuel avec Calvin Banks & Chris Harder
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According to Finn Deerhart, creator of this gay porn video: Sometimes, we can get lost in our heads during sexual encounters, far from our bodies. In these moments, to continue, we depend on fantasies, external validation, programmed images of sexy appeal, objectification and sex oriented towards a goal. Male sexuality is often reduced and oversimplified as a biological imperative to spread seeds or to descend. This explanation does not recognize the social components that are the foundation, the underlying motivations behind sex. The very nature of gay sex is antithetical to only the biological model, because it is rooted in identity, a social construction. At the same time, as men, we often lack vocabulary to describe our emotional and sexual experiences of ourselves. We can focus on routines, winning formulas, compartmentalization, or even blame our partners for feeling bored that we encounter. We can think that great sex is circumstantial - and a perfect body, passionate scenery, fulfilled fantasies. All of this is really super! It's still sex. But it limits sex. When we start to abandon our conditioned models, we access our innate senses of erotism. To begin this process, we notice inhibitions and study them consciously as paths to healing and ultimately, pleasure. In our imagination, sex and intimacy are often separated. However, sex itself is one of the most intimate expressions of our humanity - whether with a life partner, a perfect stranger or someone between the two. The division that we perceive between intimacy and sex isn't as much in what we do, but rather in how we imagine what we do. In the Elements of Desire, each Element emphasizes a specific set of skills that stack on top of one another and can be experienced layer by layer. These skills are useful for creating a framework for interpretation on what sex means to us personally. Think about practicing these elements as playing scales in order to then play chords, in order to compose a beautiful music that comes from the heart of your being.
