Playing Alone Together: Exploring Gay Porns Soft Ejaculation and Interracial Couples
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"Parallel play is a form of game where you play side by side, but don't try to influence each other's behavior. Players usually play alone during parallel play, but are interested in what others do. As we enter adulthood and into relationships, we sometimes lose the ability to play in parallel, especially if we strongly depend on what others think of us. Adult sexuality in all contexts is highly sensitive to a dynamic oriented away from its own center, creating co-dependency in which each action affects the other disproportionately. Because sex has been cultivated for many of us in the shadows, we often tend to abandon what we might think or feel during pleasure in order to obtain a validation or approval if we do it correctly or if we watch the other person. While we must absolutely develop the ability to adapt to our partners, we must also remain focused internally on our own pleasure and personal expression. It is in this tension of maintaining a double perspective that we can enjoy both control and abandonment. With Andre Donovan."